I’m back

Hi all,

Hope you are all doing ok? I’m going to start going through all the backlog of posts I have missed.

So the #burnout came and it hit me hard, real hard. Im starting to work through it and now I feel able to reflectively process it all, little by little, snippet by snippet, maybe not everyday, but 2-3 times per week (activity/stress dependent).


Its crazy the effects a burnout has physiologically. From the incessant itchy skin rash to the shaking hands and near constant anxiety, near constant neck twinges, and burning patches on my face. All that and the rollercoaster of emotions and complete and utter exhaustion. For a whole week or so all I could do to cope was to sleep through it.

I’ve been off work for one month, as it was work that made me crash and burn so bad. It had been building for a long time (1 year, 5 months) of the work stress and then from about November 2016 up until the current day, dealing with the whole ASD realisation/identity alignment process.

You guys are my therapy, and it’s very important for me to return and use this forum to aid my healing, i guess. Is it healing? Yes, i guess so. I dont know, not really that capable, just yet, of thinking deeper than a basic sentence. Everything is exhausting me.  I liken it to having to re-build myself. Whilst at the same time, not really having that mich control over the amount of time this will take, due to the exhaustion and overload at the slightest.

On a positive note, I have finally received my diagnosis assessment date!! It is 04th August and it is with none other than Dr Judith Gould, NAS Lorna Wing Centre.


Advice please

Hi. So, I’ve taken my first step in finally putting my needs first. I’ve overcome the angst, stress, and guilt and have called in sick (for a week initially). This is because I’ve been burning out and feel that it’s all come to a head. I’ve been having a great deal of stress at work -increasing pressure = increasing and less able to control anxiety.

So anyhow, the stress is showing in my body, to the point whereby I am on steroids for an incessant itchy skin rash and I have to cover up as my body is covered with scratches and sores from the itching.


So yeah, there we have it. I took annual leave last week and I had hoped this would be the time I needed to somehow sort myself out. But this wasn’t the case. Last week was mostly spent crying and sleeping.

So here’s where I need your advice. I have 10 days to sort myself out BEFORE I am due back in work, so please can you guys give me advice about how I start this, somewhat daunting, process. What should I do? How can I make myself better – not so exhausted, emotional, and at the end of the line type of state of mind?


I would massively appreciate your advice/guidance steps on how to sort myself out.


Sorry, I know this is a massive ask, but I am desperate and on a timescale.

A little voice inside me is saying there shouldn’t be a timescale and that I need to take the time to adjust, but I don’t know how to do this, in what ways should I be directing my thinking?

Thanks massively in advance.

Autscape 2017

Hey guys, I’m so excited, I just completed my registration form for Autscape 2017!! I’m mostly excited, but also very nervous and a little anxious. This is because to increase my likelihood of getting a ticket, I had to book to share a twin room.

This, as I’m sure you can imagine is unsettling me, because I will need quiet and alone time, and this is a problem because I am a nice person that cares deeply for others and so will feel that I have to communicate with the other person of whom I will be sharing with, so as not to offend.

OMG, what if I fart in my sleep?!!! Shit! Oh God! What have I done. Also, I could dribble in my sleep lol! I don’t think I dribble usually, but hey, anything could happen! I am also known to occasionally shout out the odd swear word in my sleep. Omg OMG!!!

Is anyone else going? I’ve heard it’s just incredible….hmmm…sharing a room…..oh GOD!

Check it out: http://www.autscape.org/about/

It would be amazing to meet some of you guys!!!! 🙂 :-/ :-{

Finding a Voice

How wonderful!

Autism and Expectations

Yesterday the world changed. It was a tiny shift. A momentary slide. Barely a bubble in the wake of a wave.

Small but powerful, I’ve been knocked off my feet.

Yesterday the National Autistic Society (NAS) ran a course for Autistic people who want to do Public Speaking about Autism to help the world understand.

Sarah Hendrickx, long time Public-Speaking sufferer and blessed with autism, led the day with her hilarious and honest descriptions of the difficulties and practicalities of doing it for a living.

We laughed, we cried. Oh yes, all emotions were free to be expressed. We have those; emotions. We have lots of them.

The group of 30ish was made up mostly of autistic women, which was a first for me. Everyone brought their own experiences and knowledge.

In the breaks we gathered – if we wanted to – we laughed about how unexceptional anyone openly stimming…

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